What is the relative degree of rights between a husband and wife?
General Chapter
Al-Mughni
Book of the Wedding Feast
Primary text
The right of the husband over his wife is greater than the right of the wife over him, based on the verse, 'And the men have a degree over them' (Quran 2:228). Evidence for this is found in the Prophetic statement that if he were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, he would command women to prostrate to their husbands due to the great right Allah has granted them over their wives. Moreover, if a wife sleeps having rejected her husband's bed, the angels curse her until she returns. The Prophet, peace be upon him, told a woman who had mistreated her husband, 'He is your paradise and your fire,' indicating the gravity of her duties towards him.
Supporting text
It is recommended for both spouses to cultivate excellent character, gentleness, and forbearance towards the other's mistreatment, drawing support from Quran 4:36, which commands kindness to relatives and 'the companion at your side' (al-sahib bil janb), which is interpreted to include each spouse.