Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 33:375

Muhammad ibn Fudayl narrated to us, from al-A’mash, from Ghaylan ibn Bashir, from Ya’la ibn al-Walid, who said: I was walking with Abu al-Darda’. I said, "O Abu al-Darda’, what do you love for the one you love?" He said, "Death." I said to him, "And if he does not die?" He said, "That his wealth and his children be few."