Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 33:932

Muhammad ibn Bishr narrated to us, he said: Utbah ibn Qays narrated to me, from Talq ibn Habib, he said: Four things, whoever is given them has been given the good of the world and the Hereafter: a tongue that remembers, a heart that is grateful, a body that is patient upon trials, and a believing wife who does not seek treachery against him regarding herself.