Hadith 10:699
Abu Bakr narrated to us, he said: Ibn ‘Ulayyah narrated to us, from Ibn Jurayj, from Hisham ibn ‘Urwah, that he used to say: It is not lawful for him [to take] the ransom until the corruption is from her side. And he used to say: It is not lawful for him until she says, "I will not fulfill an oath for you, and I will not perform ghusl from janabah."
حدثنا أبو بكر قال نا بن عليه عن بن جريج عن هشام بن عروة كان يقول لا يحل له الفداء حتى يكون الفساد من قبلها ولم يكن يقول لا تحل له حتى تقول لا أبر لك قسما ولا أغتسل من جنابة