Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 17:1204

Abu Bakr narrated to us, he said: Ibn Numayr narrated to us, from al-A’mash, from Abu Rashid, that a sister of ‘Ubayd ibn ‘Umayr sought the intercession of a man with him, and she said: "It is only by Allah and by you." He became angry and said: "It is only by Allah."