Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 4:922

Yazid ibn Harun narrated to us, he said: Yahya ibn Sa'id narrated to us, from 'Abd al-Rahman ibn al-Qasim, from Muhammad ibn Ja'far ibn al-Zubayr, from 'Abbad ibn 'Abd Allah ibn al-Zubayr, from 'A'isha, who said: A man came to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and mentioned that he was "burned" (i.e., ruined/destroyed). He asked him about his affair, and he mentioned that he had intercourse with his wife during Ramadan. Then a basket, called an *'araq*, containing dates was brought to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. He said, "Where is the 'burned' one?" The man stood up, and he said to him, "Give this away in charity."