Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 34:229

Yazid narrated to us, Yahya bin al-Mutawakkil Abu Aqil informed us, he said: Ismail bin Rafi’ narrated to us, from the son of Abu Salamah, from Umm Salamah, that she said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Verily, among the first things that Allah forbade me from and enjoined upon me after the worship of idols were the drinking of wine and the quarreling with men."