Hadith 6:1014
Ubaydah ibn Humayd narrated to us, from Abu Farwah al-Hamdani, from al-Mughirah ibn Abi Subay', from Ibn Buraydah, from his father, who said: I sat with the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, in a gathering, and I saw him looking sad. A man from the people said to him, "What is the matter with you, O Messenger of Allah? It is as if you are sad." He said, "I remembered my mother." Then the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: "I had forbidden you from the meat of the sacrificial animals, that you should not eat it except for three [days]. So eat, feed [others], and store whatever seems good to you. And I had forbidden you from visiting the graves; so whoever wishes to visit the grave of his mother, let him visit it. And I had forbidden you from the *duba* (gourd), the *hantam* (green glazed jar), the *muzaffat* (pitch-coated vessel), and the *naqir* (hollowed-out log). So avoid every intoxicant, and prepare your nabidh (drink) in whatever seems good to you."
حدثنا عبيدة بن حميد عن أبي فروة الهمداني عن المغيرة بن أبي سبيع عن بن بريدة عن أبيه قال جالست النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم في المجلس فرأيته حزينا فقال له رجل من القوم مالك يا رسول الله كأنك حزين قال ذكرت أمي ثم قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم كنت نهيتكم عن لحوم الأضاحي أن تأكلوها إلا ثلاثة فكلوا وأطعموا وادخروا ما بدا لكم ونهيتكم عن زيارة القبور فمن أراد أن يزور قبر أمه فليزره وكنت نهيتكم عن الدباء والحنتم والمزفت والنقير فاجتنبوا كل مسكر وانبذوا فيما بدا لكم