Hadith 6:1315
Ali bin Mushir narrated to us, from al-Shaybani, from Abu Burdah, from his father, who said: When Umar was struck, Suhayb began to say, "Oh, my brother!" Umar said to him, "O Suhayb, do you not know that the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: 'Indeed, the deceased is punished by the weeping of the living'?"
حدثنا علي بن مسهر عن الشياني ( ( ( الشيباني ) ) ) عن أبي بردة عن أبيه قال لما أصيب عمر جعل صهيب يقول وا أخاه قال فقال له عمر يا صهيب أما علمت أن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال ان الميت ليعذب ببكاء الحي