Hadith 6:1321
Ibn Numayr narrated to us, Hisham bin Urwah narrated to us, from his father, from Aisha, that it was said to her: "Ibn Umar attributes to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, that the deceased is punished by the weeping of the living." She said: "May Abu Abd al-Rahman be forgiven! He only said that the family of the deceased weep over him, while he is being punished for his own crime."
حدثنا بن نمير ثنا هشام بن عروة عن أبيه عن عائشة انها قيل لها ان بن عمر يرفع إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم أن الميت يعذب ببكاء الحي فقالت وهل أبو عبد الرحمن إنما قال ان أهل الميت يبكون عليه وانه ليعذب بجرمه