Hadith 8:596
Abu Bakr narrated to us, he said: Abdullah bin Numayr narrated to us, from Abd al-Malik, from Ata, who said: "Al-rafath (obscenity) and al-fusuq (wickedness) are acts of disobedience. And al-jidal (arguing) is that you argue with your companion until you anger him and he angers you."
حدثنا أبو بكر قال حدثنا عبد الله بن نمير عن عبد الملك عن عطاء قال الرفث والفسوق المعاصي والجدال أن تجادل صاحبك حتى تغضبه ويغضبك