Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 19:235

Abu Bakr narrated to us, he said: Abbad bin al-Awwam narrated to us, from Hajjaj, from Ata, who said: I asked about a man who says to his wife, "I did not find you a virgin." He said: There is nothing upon him. Indeed, virginity goes away from jumping, illness, and remaining unmarried for a long time.