Hadith 11:222
Abdullah ibn Numayr narrated to us, Hisham ibn Sa’d narrated to us, he said: Qays ibn Bishr al-Taghlibi narrated to me, he said: My father was a companion of Abu al-Darda’ in Damascus. There was a man in Damascus from the companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) who was called Ibn al-Hanzaliyyah from the Ansar. The man was a recluse; he rarely sat with people. He would only pray, and when he finished, he would only engage in glorifying Allah (tasbih) and declaring His oneness (tahlil) until he returned to his family. One day, he passed by us while we were with Abu al-Darda’, and he greeted us. Abu al-Darda’ said to him, "Say a word that will benefit us and not harm you." He said: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) said: "You are going to visit your brothers, so fix your mounts and fix your clothing until you are like a beauty mark (shama) among the people, for Allah does not love indecency or the acting of indecency."
حدثنا عبد الله بن نمير نا هشام بن سعد قال حدثني قيس بن بشر التغلبي قال كان أبي جليسا لأبي الدرداء بدمشق وكان بدمشق رجل من أصحاب رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقال له بن الحنظلية من الأنصار وكان الرجل متوحدا قل ما يجالس الناس إنما هو يصلي فإذا انصرف فإنما هو تسبيح وتهليل حتى يأتي أهله فمر بنا ذات يوم ونحن عند أبي الدرداء فسلم فقال له أبو الدرداء كلمة تنفعنا ولا تضرك قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم إنكم قادمون على إخوانكم فاصلحوا رجالكم وأصلحوا لباسكم حتى تكونوا كأنكم شامة في الناس فإن الله لا يحب الفحش والتفحش