Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 9:1219

Ja'far ibn 'Awn narrated to us, he said: Rabi'ah ibn 'Uthman informed us, from Muhammad ibn Yahya ibn Habban, from Nahar al-'Abdi—and he was one of the companions of Abu Sa'id al-Khudri—from Abu Sa'id, that a man came with a daughter of his to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. He said, "My daughter has refused to marry." He said: So he [the Prophet] said to her, "Obey your father." She said, "No, until you inform me what is the right of the husband over his wife." He repeated her statement to him. He said: So he said, "The right of the husband over his wife is that if he had an ulcer and she licked it, or his nostrils gushed with pus or blood, and then she licked it, she would not have fulfilled his right." She said, "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will never marry." He said: So he said, "Do not marry them off except with their permission."