Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 9:1221

'Abd al-Rahim ibn Sulayman narrated to us, from Layth, from 'Abd al-Malik, from 'Ata', from Ibn 'Umar, who said: A woman came to the Prophet of Allah and said, "O Messenger of Allah, what is the right of the husband over his wife?" He said, "She should not deny him herself, even if she were upon the back of a camel saddle." She said, "O Messenger of Allah, what is the right of the husband over his wife?" He said, "She should not give charity from his house except with his permission. If she does so, the angels of Allah, the angels of mercy, and the angels of wrath will curse her until she repents or returns it." She said, "O Prophet of Allah, even if he is unjust to her?" He said, "Even if he is unjust to her." She said, "By the One who sent you with the truth, no one shall have authority over my affairs after this, ever, as long as I live."