Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 9:1222

Ali ibn Mushir narrated to us, from Yahya ibn Sa'id, from Bashir ibn Yasar, from Husayn ibn Mihsan, that an aunt of his came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, seeking a need. When she had fulfilled her need, he said, "Do you have a husband?" She said, "Yes." He said, "How are you with him?" She said, "I do not fall short in anything good for him, except for what I am unable to do." He said, "Look to how you are with him, for he is your Paradise and your Fire."