Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 9:1231

'Affan narrated to us, he said: Hammad bin Salamah narrated to us, he said: 'Ali bin Zayd informed us, from Sa'id bin al-Musayyib, from 'Aishah, she said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have commanded the woman to prostrate to her husband. And if a man were to command his wife to move from a red mountain to a black mountain, or from a black mountain to a red mountain, it would be her duty to do so."