Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 9:1794

Muhammad ibn Ubayd narrated to us, from al-A’mash, from Salim, from Jabir, who said: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) asked me, "Have you married a virgin or a previously married woman?" I said, "No, rather a previously married woman." He said, "Why not a young girl, so that you may play with her and she may play with you?"