Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 9:569

Ibn Mahdi narrated to us, from Harb ibn Shaddad, from Yahya ibn Abi Kathir, from Muhammad ibn Ibrahim ibn al-Harith, that the daughter of Abdullah ibn Ja'far was married to a man from Quraysh. He gave her the choice between him keeping her while not dividing [his time] for her, or him divorcing her. She chose for him to keep her and not divorce her.