Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 36:433

Abdullah ibn Numayr narrated to us, from Yahya ibn Sa'id, from 'Amrah, that she heard 'Aishah saying: When the news of the death of Ja'far ibn Abi Talib, Zayd ibn Harithah, and Abdullah ibn Rawahah came, the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) sat down, and sadness was recognizable on his face. 'Aishah said: And I was looking through the crack of the door. A man came to him and said: "O Messenger of Allah, the women of Ja'far..." and he mentioned their weeping. So the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) ordered him to forbid them.