Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 28:1121

'Abd al-Rahim ibn Sulayman narrated to us, from 'Asim al-Ahwal, from 'Amir, who said: Jabir ibn 'Abd Allah said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "When the absence of one of you from his family becomes long, let him not approach his family by night."