Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 7:436

Yazid ibn Harun narrated to us, from Yahya ibn Sa'id, from 'Abd al-Rahman ibn al-Qasim, from Muhammad ibn Ja'far ibn al-Zubayr, from 'Abbad ibn 'Abd Allah ibn al-Zubayr, from 'A'ishah, who said: A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and mentioned that he was "burned" (i.e., ruined/destroyed). He asked him about his affair, and he mentioned that he had intercourse with his wife during Ramadan. Then he came to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, with a large basket called an *araq* containing dates. He said, "Where is the one who was burned?" The man stood up, and he said, "Give this as charity."