Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 3:6408

Waki' narrated to us, he said: Al-A'mash narrated to us, from Abu Dhabyan, from Mu'adh, he said: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) said: "If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have commanded the women to prostrate to their husbands."