Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 3:6410

Abdullah ibn Musa narrated to us, from Ismail ibn Abd al-Malik, from Abu al-Zubayr, from Jabir, who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands."