Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 35:134

Ibn ‘Uyaynah narrated to us, from al-Zuhri, from Humayd, from Abu Hurayrah, who said: A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said: "I am ruined." He said: "And what has ruined you?" He said: "I had intercourse with my wife during Ramadan." He said: "Free a slave." He said: "I do not find [one]." He said: "Fast for two months." He said: "I am not able." He said: "Feed sixty poor people." He said: "I do not find [anything]." He said: "Sit." So he sat. While he was like that, a basket containing dates was brought. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said to him: "Go and give this as charity." He said: "By the One who sent you with the truth, there is no household between the two lava fields of Medina poorer than us." He laughed until his canine teeth appeared, then said: "Go and feed it to your family." And it was mentioned that Abu Hanifah said: It is not permissible for him to feed it to his family.