Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 13:2124

Abu Bakr narrated to us, he said: Waki’ narrated to us, he said: Iyas ibn Daghfal narrated to us, from al-Hasan, who said: A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said: "O Messenger of Allah, what is the status of my affair and the affair of my companion?" He said: "Regarding which affair of yours?" He said: "She gives charity from my house without my permission." He said: "The reward is between you both." He said: "What if I forbid her?" He said: "You have not done well, and you have what she withheld."