Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 21:19

Abu Bakr narrated to us, he said: Waki’ narrated to us, from Mis’ar, from ‘Alqama bin Marthad, from al-Mughira bin ‘Abdullah, from al-Ma’rur, from ‘Abdullah, he said: Umm Habiba, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: "O Allah, let me enjoy my husband, the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and my father, Abu Sufyan, and my brother, Mu’awiya." He (the Prophet) said: "Indeed, you have asked Allah for fixed terms, numbered days, and apportioned provisions. Nothing will be hastened before its time, nor will anything be delayed beyond its time. And if you had asked Allah to protect you from the punishment of the grave and the punishment of the Fire, it would have been better and more excellent."