Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba 27:241

Abu Khalid narrated to us, from Muhammad ibn ‘Ajlan, from Muhammad ibn Ya’qub, who said: ‘Isa ibn Maryam (Jesus, son of Mary) said: "Do not speak excessively without the remembrance of Allah, for your hearts will harden; for indeed, the hard heart is far from Allah, but you do not know. And do not look at the sins of the servants as if you are lords, but look at your own sins. For people are only two types: one afflicted and one spared. So have mercy on the people of affliction, and praise Allah for the well-being."