Hadith 5:886
Abu Bakr narrated to us, he said: Hafs narrated to us, from Hisham ibn Urwah, from his father, from Hakim ibn Hizam, who said: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) said: "Whoever seeks self-sufficiency, Allah will make him self-sufficient. And whoever seeks chastity, Allah will make him chaste. And the upper hand is better than the lower hand."
حدثنا أبو بكر قال حدثنا حفص عن هشام بن عروة عن أبيه عن حكيم بن حزام قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم من يستغن يغنه الله ومن يستعفف يعفه الله واليد العليا خير من اليد السفلى