Hadith 5:893
Mu'awiyah ibn Hisham narrated to us, he said: Sufyan narrated to us, from Ash'ath ibn Abi al-Sha'tha', from Aswad ibn Hilal, from Tha'labah ibn Zahdam, who said: The people of Tha'labah reached the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, while he was delivering a sermon, and he was saying: "The hand of the giver is the upper one, and the hand of the asker is the lower one. And begin with those whom you support: your mother, your father, your sister, your brother, then your nearest, then your nearest."
حدثنا معاوية بن هشام قال حدثنا سفيان عن أشعث بن أبي الشعثاء عن أسود بن هلال عن ثعلبة بن زهدم قال انتهى قوم ثعلبة إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم وهو يخطب وهو يقول يد المعطي العليا ويد السائل السفلى وابدأ بمن تعول أمك وأباك وأختك وأخاك وادناك فأدناك