Musnad Abu Ya'la al-Mawsili 149:145

Abu al-Rabi' narrated to us, Hammad narrated to us, Hisham narrated to us, from his father, from Aisha, that the brother of Abu Qu'ays sought permission to enter upon her, but she refused to grant him permission. She mentioned that to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. He said, "He is your paternal uncle, so let him enter." She said, "O Messenger of Allah, it was the woman who nursed me, not the man." He said, "He is your paternal uncle, so let him enter."