Musnad Abu Ya'la al-Mawsili 150:132

'Abd al-A'la narrated to us, Yahya narrated to us, from Hisham ibn 'Urwah, my father informed me, from 'Aishah: That Hind bint 'Utbah said, "O Messenger of Allah, indeed Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give me what suffices me and my children, and I take from him without his knowledge." He said, "Take what suffices you and your children according to what is customary."