Musnad Ahmad 27:1270

Yunus ibn Muhammad narrated to us, Layth narrated to us, from Yazid ibn Abi Habib, from Ibrahim ibn Salih—and his name by which he is known is Nu’aym ibn al-Nahham, and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) had named him Salih—informed him that Abdullah ibn Umar said to Umar ibn al-Khattab: "Propose to Salih’s daughter on my behalf." He said: "He has orphans, and he would not prioritize us over them." Abdullah went to his uncle Zayd ibn al-Khattab to propose. Zayd went to Salih and said: "Abdullah ibn Umar sent me to you to propose to your daughter." He said: "I have orphans, and I would not neglect my own flesh and blood to elevate your flesh and blood. I call you to witness that I have married her to so-and-so." The girl’s mother favored Abdullah ibn Umar, so she came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and said: "O Prophet of Allah, Abdullah ibn Umar proposed to my daughter, but her father married her to an orphan under his guardianship without consulting her." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) sent for Salih and said: "Did you marry off your daughter without consulting her?" He said: "Yes." He said: "Consult women regarding themselves, even if she is a virgin." Salih said: "I only did this because Ibn Umar would not provide for her, for he has a share in my wealth equal to what he would give her."