Musnad Ahmad 27:417

Yazid narrated to us, Muhammad ibn ‘Amr informed us, from Yahya ibn ‘Abd al-Rahman ibn Hatib, from Ibn ‘Umar, who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) passed by a grave and said: "Indeed, this one is being punished right now because of the weeping of his family over him." ‘Aisha said: May Allah forgive Abu ‘Abd al-Rahman; he has erred. Indeed, Allah the Exalted says: {And no bearer of burdens shall bear the burden of another} [Al-An'am: 164]. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) only said: "Indeed, this one is being punished right now, and his family is weeping over him."