Musnad Ahmad 30:1789

Qutaybah ibn Sa'id narrated to us, he said: 'Abd al-'Aziz ibn Muhammad narrated to us, from Usayd ibn Abi Usayd, from Nafi' ibn 'Abbas, the freed slave of 'Aqilah bint Talq al-Ghifariyyah, from Abu Hurayrah, that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Whoever loves to have his beloved wear a ring of fire, let him place for him a ring of gold. And whoever loves to have his beloved wear a collar of fire, let him collar him with a collar of gold. And whoever loves to have his beloved wear a bracelet of fire, let him bracelet him with a bracelet of gold. But you must use silver, so play with it."