Musnad Ahmad 30:2459

Yahya narrated to us, from Ibn ‘Ajlan, he said: Sa‘id narrated to me, from Abu Hurayrah, from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was asked: "Which of the women is best?" He said: "The one who pleases him when he looks at her, obeys him when he commands, and does not oppose him regarding herself or his wealth in what he dislikes."