Musnad Ahmad 788:133

'Affan narrated to us, Shu'bah narrated to us, from 'Awf, who said: I heard Khalid al-Ahdab, from Safwan ibn Muhriz, who said: Abu Musa fainted, so they wept over him. When he regained consciousness, he said: "I disassociate myself from you, just as the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) disassociated himself from: the one who shaves (her head in grief), the one who raises her voice (in wailing), and the one who tears (her garment)." 'Affan narrated it to us another time, and he said regarding all of them: "The one who shaves, or raises her voice, or tears."