Musnad Ahmad 788:230

Abu Amir narrated to us, he said: Zuhayr narrated to us, from Usayd ibn Abi Usayd, from Musa ibn Abi Musa al-Ash’ari, from his father, that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "The deceased is punished by the weeping of the living over him. When the wailing woman says: 'O my support! O my helper! O my provider!' the deceased is pulled and it is said to him: 'Are you her support? Are you her helper? Are you her provider?'" I said: "Glory be to Allah! Allah the Almighty says: 'And no bearer of burdens shall bear the burden of another' [Al-An'am: 164]." He said: "Woe to you! I narrate to you from Abu Musa, from the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and you say this? So which of us lied? By Allah, I did not lie about Abu Musa, and Abu Musa did not lie about the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)."