Musnad Ahmad 1167:80

Muhammad ibn Bishr narrated to us, he said: Hisham ibn Urwah narrated to us, from Fatimah bint al-Mundhir, from Asma bint Abi Bakr—and she was one who kept count—and from Abbad ibn Hamzah, from Asma, that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to her: "Spend, or sprinkle, or give away, like this and like this. And do not withhold, lest Allah withhold from you; and do not count, lest Allah count against you."