Musnad Ahmad 729:0

Narrated to us by Hisham ibn Abd al-Malik, narrated to us by Baqiyyah, narrated to us by Bahir ibn Sa'd, from Khalid ibn Ma'dan, from Jubayr ibn Nufayr, from Husayn ibn Mihsan, from his paternal aunt: That she went to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) for some need. He said to her: "Do you have a husband?" She said: "Yes." He said: "How are you with him?" She said: "I do not neglect anything of his except that which I am unable to do." He said: "Look at where you stand in relation to him, for he is your Paradise and your Fire."