Musnad Ahmad 677:3

'Affan narrated to us, Abu 'Awanah narrated to us, from Mansur, from 'Ubayd Allah ibn 'Arfatah al-Sulami, from Khidash Abu Salamah, who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "I advise a man..." and he mentioned its meaning.