Musnad Ahmad 1170:0

Narrated Umaymah bint Ruqayqah: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "I do not shake hands with women." She said: "So he took the pledge from us that we would not associate anything with Allah, would not steal, would not commit adultery, would not kill our children, would not bring a slander that we have forged between our hands and our feet, and would not disobey him in what is right." She said: "I said: 'O Messenger of Allah, what is the right in which we should not disobey you?'" He said: "That you do not wail, do not scratch your faces, do not tear your garments, and do not call out for destruction (woe)."