Musnad Ahmad 33:125

Yahya ibn Sa'id narrated to us, from 'Abd al-Malik, and Ishaq ibn Yusuf al-Azraq narrated to us, [who said] narrated to us 'Abd al-Malik, from 'Ata', from Jabir, who said: I married a woman during the time of the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him. He said: "O Jabir, have you married?" I said: Yes. He said: "A virgin or a previously married woman?" I said: A previously married woman. He said: "Why not a virgin, that you might play with her?" I said: O Messenger of Allah, I have sisters, and I feared that she would come between me and them. He said: "A woman is married for her religion, her wealth, and her beauty; so seek the one who is religious, may your hands be rubbed with dust [i.e., may you prosper]."