Musnad Ahmad 33:744

Ubaydah narrated to us, Al-Aswad narrated to me, from Nabih al-Anazi, from Jabir ibn Abdullah, who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me: "O Jabir, do you have a wife?" I said: "Yes." He said: "Did you marry a previously married woman (thayyib), or a virgin (bikr)?" I said to him: "I married her, and she is a thayyib." He said to me: "Why did you not marry a young girl?" I said to him: "My father was killed with you on such and such a day, and he left behind young daughters. I disliked bringing to them a young girl like one of them. So I married a thayyib who can groom the lice of one of them and mend the garment of one of them if it tears." He said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "You have seen well."