Musnad Ahmad 33:79

Muhammad ibn Ja'far and Hajjaj narrated to us, they said: Shu'bah narrated to us, from Muharib ibn Dithar, [who said]: I heard Jabir ibn Abdullah. And 'Affan narrated to us, Shu'bah narrated to us, Muharib ibn Dithar said: He informed me that he heard Jabir ibn Abdullah saying: "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to dislike that a man should come to his family by night (unexpectedly)." Or he said: "He used to dislike that a man should come to his family by night (unexpectedly)."