Musnad Ahmad 1152:0

Abdullah ibn Muhammad narrated to us—and I heard it from him—Abu Usamah narrated to us, Mujalid informed us, Amir informed me, from Farwah ibn Musayk al-Muradi, who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me: "Did you dislike your day and the day of Hamdan?" I said: "Yes, O Messenger of Allah, [it was] the destruction of family and kin." He said: "As for it, it is better for whoever among you feared Allah."