Musnad Ahmad 1153:293

Ibn Numayr narrated to us, Hisham narrated to us, from his father, from Aisha, who said: It was said to her: "Ibn Umar attributes to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, that 'The deceased is punished by the weeping of the living.'" She said: "May Allah forgive Abu Abd al-Rahman. He only said: 'The family of the deceased weep over him, and he is punished for his own crime.'"