Musnad Ahmad 1153:741

Ishaq narrated to us, he said: Malik narrated to me, from Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr, from his father, from Amrah, that she informed him that she heard Aisha, and it was mentioned to her that Abdullah ibn Umar says: "Indeed, the deceased is punished by the weeping of the living." Aisha said: "May Allah forgive Abu Abd al-Rahman. As for him, he did not lie, but he forgot, or he erred. The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, only passed by a Jewish woman who was being wept over, and he said: 'They are weeping for her, and she is being punished in her grave.'"