Musnad Ahmad 2:208

'Abd al-Razzaq narrated to us, Ibn Jurayj informed us, 'Abd Allah ibn Abi Mulaykah informed me... then he mentioned the meaning of the hadith of Ayyub, except that he said: Ibn 'Umar said to 'Amr ibn 'Uthman, while he was facing him: "Will you not forbid weeping? For the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: 'Indeed, the deceased is punished by the weeping of his family over him.'"